Frequently Asked
Questions for the Birth Parent(s)
Please remember that most of the negative stories that
you may have heard or read about regarding adoptions are
sensationalized by the media and are not typical of the
adoption process.
1. Is the adoption confidential?
Yes. Your decision is completely personal and your identifying
information will remain confidential and will not be shared
with the adoptive family unless you agree to disclose the information.
2. Who chooses the family that will adopt my child?
You can choose the family who you feel is best for your
child. We can assist this process by showing you
profiles of many loving, caring families who are looking
to adopt.
3. How do I know that my child is going to a good
home?
Every adoptive parent is required to have a home study
completed. A social worker will visit
their home, complete a criminal background check, get
a health report from the parent's physician and
contact personal references in order to be sure that
they are fit to be an adoptive parent.
4. Will it cost me anything?
As an expectant mother, help and services are provided
to you FREE OF CHARGE. Your pregnancy expenses, housing
and medical costs may all be paid by the adoptive parents.
5. Can I get financial assistance?
We can assist you with arranging for medical care,
counseling, living expenses and legal representation.
6. Why do I need an attorney?
The court requires birth parents to be represented by an
attorney to be sure that they understand
their legal rights.
7. How involved is the birth father in the adoption
plan?
We encourage the birth father to be involved. However,
often the birth fathers are not available or choose not
to participate in the adoption process.
8. What type of contact would I have with the
adoptive parents?
Whether or not you have contact is up to you. In most cases, you
can meet or speak with the adoptive parent or parents before you
give birth. After the child is adopted, we can arrange
for the adoptive family to send photos and notes to you
or, in some cases, arrange for additional contact.
9. Will my child be able to contact me when they
become an adult?
When the child is 18 he/she will have access to the
original birth certificate, which will have your name
listed. Birth parents who want to be reunited with their
children should keep the court updated with current
contact information.
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Our New Hampshire adoption specialists
are available
24 hours a day to
consult with you at:
1-888-95-ADOPT (23678) |